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writes:hi..i need help plz guys..i just broked up with my bf. last year we went out for very short time but i did liked him then he said lets just be friends then, i said ok but i wasn't happy and now i still like him i havent moved on yet can someone help me out plzzz????
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reader, AskEve +, writes (19 February 2007):
 It's always difficult when a relationship breaks up but you're young and there's plenty more men out there who will love you and make you feel good. You'll probably have a few more relationships before you finally settle down, it happens to us all so don't worry too much about it, look at it as a learning curve. Here is a link that will help you move on. Read it carefully okay?
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
You'll be fine, get out there and enjoy yourself with friends. Busy yourself with a new hobby and soon he'll be nothing more than a very distant memory.
Eve
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 February 2007):
 We all go through this at some time in our lives and some people never fully move on. The thing is, you have to have the self esteem and confidence to get a grip and realise you're worth more than hanging on some guys every word, waiting for him to throw you a bit of attention and for you to lap it up. Life is not about this, it's about two people having equal love and respect and being happy together. If he doesn't feel that, maybe you need to realise he can't make you happy.
You need to spend this time with your mates, having fun and realising that you have more fun without a guy to think about. You're only young and you'll look back and wonder what you ever saw in him soon, I promise! Everyone on here will vouch for that, we've all been there.
Don't keep running back to him and looking desperate: the worst thing to give a man is the power over you. He will use it against you and use you all he likes then. He sounds like a nice enough guy who told you the truth and didn't string you along. Let him go and find someone new, but until then, chill with your mates and keep busy: being alone is when we feel we need them most.
Good luck
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