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writes:i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she had kissed after the two relationshps she wos in,and she also told me bout a fling she had.for some reason when she told i started geting a bad burning feeling inside. i appreciate she is being honest with me but maybe i would've appreciated it if she had to when i asked her bout other guys. but she said she forgot about those other guys because they did not mean anything.I think i'm feeling jealous that she is more experienced than me in the sense that she has done more kissing and i havn't. i don't like feeling like this, but she has told me she has never felt like this for anyone before the way she feels for me...i do always put her happiness before mine. I have liked other girls before but i have never had the confidence to take it further because i didn't not want to get rejected..i really regret it because i know if i had i wouldn't be feeling this jealousy inside me...Please someone help me.....!!!!!!!!!!! by the way we're both 20..and she is the 2nd girl i have kissed properly!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): aww, i was like that with my boyfriend
he'd had so many girlfriends and i practically hadn't even pulled a guy, so i know how you feel, it feels as though you're not 'even' in the relationship
i wouldn't worry about it, she's with you now, which obviously shows she really likes you and doesn't care about your past experiences
and this feeling might stay for a few days or weeks, because it took me ages to get used to
good luck =]
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Hey don't worry about it at all. You really like her and the thought of her kissing someone else made you feel a bit jealous. That was all in the past though, she's with YOU now! She has never slept with any of these guys which is even better. Jealousy is a worthless emotion, it doesn't have anything good going for it at all except to make you feel bad so it belongs in the trash can. Think good things about her, the fact that she's remained a virgin even after going out with those other guys.
And she's YOUR girlfriend now! As for the kissing....? I'm sure she loves kissing you, the more you kiss her the more experienced in kissing you'll become so enjoy "learning." ;o)
You really have nothing to worry about love. Just enjoy being together and bonding closer as you both get to know one another and maybe even becoming intimate as time goes on.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): Its normal to feel jealous when girls talk about there boyfriends. Trust me my boyfriend told me, i brought up an ex and he flipped out. When the time comes youll take it further. if she said the other guys didnt matter, then they probably dont
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