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writes:Theres a lad I fancy loads and I dont know how he feels for me. I slept with him 6 months ago, just as a one night stand, and every time I have seen him since then we have both been drunk and end up kissing. We get on really well when we see each other out and last weekend he took my number but he still hasnt called me.I now think he only likes me when hes drunk and I know that the next time I see him I will end up kissing him but that will be it. I would love to go out with him but Im worried Ive ruined my chances by having a casual one nite stand with him. When I see him he's so nice to me and is all over me and I really think he likes me but then I dont hear from him. Should I text him or just leave it? Ive been really hurt in the past and Im scared its gonna happen again, I just dont know what to do.
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reader, Psyche  +, writes (19 February 2007):
Invite him out for tea or something where there is no chance for alcohol. Maybe you wont even like him when you are sober?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): i think you should just leave it and wait for him to text you our call you and yes, i think you may now have lost your chances with him and he might like you but you should tell him how you really feel about him and see if he really givees you a chance being your real boyfriend and see what he tells you so instead of just kissing him becuase hes drunk or whatever you vcan actually feel something morer powerful then just becuase hes drunk and i really hope every thing works out with you and him and at the end you two can understand eachother better and tell eachother how you guys feel...................love malica
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reader, AskEve +, writes (19 February 2007):
 If he liked you enough to want to be in a relationship with you he'd definitely call you! What he's looking for is another one night stand. He's all over you when he's drunk but can't (or doesn't want to) call you when he's sober.
Forget about him, he's not worth it. If he only comes on to you when he's drunk he's a loser and is only after the one thing. I certainly wouldn't waste any more time on him. Have a bit of self respect and wait for someone who will respect and treat you better.
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Well... there's no reason why he should be the first person to text and it's only Monday! Not many days have gone since last weekend. Try texting him and if he doesn't reply by say, Thursday, think again whether you want to be in a relationship where you care so much more about him than he does about you but until that happens give him the benefit of the doubt.
CD
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