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writes:im 17 and started having feelings for a 22 year old. we got really close and ended up having sex but he didnt want anything serious just fun. we have ended up having sex regulary but now my feelings have become really strong for him. i want to tell him how i really feel and that i want more but i know he just uses me foe sex. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Hey girl,
I'm 21 and I've seen my share of no-strings-attached relationships, and they can almost never end well. If he's already laid it down that he is not interested in being serious, then he is really not interested in becoming that way at all. The best thing you can do, as you will see it for yourself soon enough, is to try to forget about him and move on. Replace him with someone who is worth your time.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (21 February 2007):
 AskEve hit it right on the button! I think that you should have respect for yourself, and don't fall into bed too fast. It also good to wait to have sex with other guys you are interested in (just in case the one you like don't work out) because they will only want you for the bedroom sports and not for the long-haul! And when you find the one that is very promising, you make sure that it is "SAFE SEX" all the way!!! (no glove, no love)
Good Luck to you!!!
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reader, Sadi +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Hi.. I am a 22 yr. old girl, and i think that he is USING you... For one thing, ( no offense ) you;re a minor... Apparently he has no self control.. If you two did have a seriouse thing, and here he is sleeping with a minor, what makes you think he wont cheat? I think you should Find someone your age, and also,, at 17, find someone who wants what you want.. Its not going to be easy, but its worth a heart ach... Good Luck
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 That's the problem when you have sex with no strings attached. What do you do? You know he doesn't want anything serious so you stop letting him use you in this way and let him know that you don't want to do this any more. You don't need to give him a reason. You might be surprised, maybe he WILL miss you more than you know.
Have some respect for yourself and drop the sex with him. If he says he really likes you and wants to continue the relationship then tell him yes, fine but I want to get to know you better before I jump into bed with you again. If he's only after a leg over he won't be up for that and you'll know as he'll try to talk you round. NO MAN who truly respects you would try to have sex with you on a first date! Remember that for next time. Incidentally, I hope you remembered to take precautions???
Eve
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