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anonymous
writes:I cant cum. I dont know why but when i have sex with my boyfriend and i feel like im about to cum i just keep thinking i need the toilet, it feels as though i need a wee and ive learnt to hold back and not cum, now i dont know how to because i would die of humiliation if i weed myself instead of cumming. For three years now ive had sex and not been able to cum, is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): finally its not just me!!
I had exactly the same problem, i thought omg im gonna pee and he's gonna think itsa disgusting
but then once i hadnt drank anything and i didnt feel like i needed to pee before hand so when it came to it i was having an amazing time with someone i trusted so i was like sod it!
And i came and stuff came out but it wasnt pee
and to be honest guys find it a massiv turn on wen u physically cum.
yay
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): Yes
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): When you feel the need to wee, Push down youre pelvis and "wee", relax and have fun lucky girl.
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Hiya.
Finally..Someone who has the same problem as me. When i am on the verge of cumming, i feel its wee, so dont cum. Trust me..its just the juices inside reacting & coming out, dont worry!! Just let it all come out..but make sure you use the toilet before hand..just to be sure.
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): It's not pee. It means he is hitting the g spot inside and WOW! When the g spot is stimulated, it does feel like the urge but TRUST ME...it is not urine.
Most orgasms have are a mixture regardless if the urge is present or not. Now don't freak out. It has been this way for hundreds of years and it is how woman are made. It just is.
Just go to the loo before hand. And afterwards. I find I don't pee while having one but after a good workout...I need the loo.
Hope this helped.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): this has happened to me too. i wasn't sure and didn't want to take a risk. so i went to the bathroom everytime before, and it worked out fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): you can't wee when you have an erection so don't worry about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): You can't wee and cum at the same time, when your in a postion like that, you won't wee. so you'll be fine, just for you too feel more comfortalble at the same time, i suggest you go to the toilet before you have sex :)
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Sometimes being incredibly turned on can feel like you need to wee but I'm sure you wouldn't. Go to the loo before you have sex so you can relax and then let go. Honestly, I'm sure you'd find you don't even need the loo about five minutes after orgasm.
CD
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Your getting yourself all worked up and anxious about it and because of this you're holding back. You need to relax more, don't think about it and just have your orgasm when you feel it's there. Remember, it takes women longer to heat up than it does men so lots of foreplay and stimulation from your partner is the key. Make sure you go to the bathroom beforehand, that way if you feel ready to orgasm it WILL be an orgasm and not the need to urinate. You cannot do BOTH at the same time!
Eve
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