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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How should I go about being more funny and flirty in conversations with girls?Like dropping in sexual innuendoes and other things like that to show I want to take our relationship further than just friends.I kind of close up when it comes to talking to girls but I need to be more myself and open because all other people I know absolutely love me. However, when it comes to knew people mainly women I become nervous and then ruin my chances of anything further than friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): All you have to do is remember that girls are people too. They need, eat, pee, and pass gas just like boys. Girls are not angelic heavenly creatures.
Best thing to do is talk about your interests. Flirting is not dropping sexual innuendos, necessarily. In fact, that can be annoying. It's body language and tone. You can say the same thing you normally say in a flirty way. Just change your tone and body language.
Also, watch what a girl is doing. If she keeps touching you (play hitting, tickling, brushing against you,) that's a sign she may be interested. Make a lot of eye contact and smile when talking.
The other thing about that "friend zone" is that, to get out of a friend zone you have to be attractive to the girl to begin with. You may not be losing your chance. It may be more that you're looking at the girls who are not looking back. Pay attention to the girls around you. I would bet you that there is a girl who has a huge crush on you but you just didn't notice her because you were looking at someone who isn't interested this whole time. So broaden your view.
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