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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey people,i wanna know if there are any tips how can you distinguish between if the girl that i want likes me or she is just attention seeker ? here is some info which might helpshe is famous in school and knows a lot of guys, classmates want to be always with her etc..but for me i dont give a .... about this because im as well nice and well known in the school plus i dont seek looks but what is inside.anyway so i went to her and we talked, she is really a nice beautiful girl, we started to talk almost daily when we see each other.. and then she started to be in my way sometimes or sit in places where i can be found in school, she also has talked about me with her 2 girl friends that she usually go with..and she used to go with alot of guys before we talk but now like she has 2 girl friends which she is always with..anyway one of her classmates who im a friend of his brother came to me and told me she is the not one you looking for, she likes guys to look at her etc..i know you are going to say ask her out and see what she says, but any idea how to know if she is really attention seeker before even asking her out?btw she is not my age, she is younger than me in 3 years.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): Ask her out and see what she says!:)
No I get that you wanna check things out first. Maybe look at how she is around other guys, does she seem to be flirting with them, like flicking her hair, touching their arm... look at these little signs,
If not and she's mostly around her girl friends well then give it a try, ask her out, get to know her and then you will know for sure if she is an attention seeker.
As for what other people say, yes by all means take their opinion on board,but don't accept it as fact, suss out for yourself how she is around other guys, get to know for yourself first, you can always change you mind if you see that she is an attention seeker.
Good luck.x
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