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30-35,
*rankieMoe
writes:Hello everyone , i feel like my heart is about to break, you see i have this friend who is one of my best friends and he's hangin out with the girl i love when i'm not around like...all the time. and the worse thing is that i can't say anything so I just ....Just don't know what to do or think and it's tearring me apart , i'm afraid to lose her .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): I assume you're not in a relationship with her. Have you made it clear to your friend how much you like this girl? If not thats your first step. If he likes her too, that could get complicated and you'll need to look at your friendship with your friend. How strong is it? Are you two besties?
If you are very close friends then, both of you should make an agreement with eachother that neither of you will pursue this girl as it would damage your friendship.
Next step if your friend IS ok with it and he does not like her as much as you do, then spend more time with girl and get to know her tell her you like her.
She might also like one of you more than the other which needs to be considered too.
Hope it works out for you.
Good Luck.x
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reader, Trivanie  +, writes (10 October 2011):
 First of all you didnt mension if your going out with her you just said shes the love of your life, so im thinking shes your crush,who happens to be friends with your bestfriend .If you love her why cant you say anything..all you need to do is tell her how you feel about her chiiling with your bestfriend all the time.If she loves you she going to listen to you. If its not ment to be.just move on.
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