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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months yesterday. Everyone congratulated us when they heard the news but I am not very excited over it. I'm not sure why because we get on very well, and I have been wanting to go further with him almost since we first met. However, when we started dating, he constantly expressed his strong love for me, kept compliments flowing and keeps getting (and asking for) hugs and kisses. He would just go for it and can be too impulsive, which annoys me rather than makes me enjoy it. I don't mind them much but occasionally it can get too much and at an inconvenient time. Is it even possible? I had a word with him recently which made him confused about when he could do it. I advised him to just think before he wants to act. Besides, these issues, he isn't working and my Mum isn't keen on him which puts pressure on me. His family likes me though. Why am I feeling these things? What shall I do about him? He is talking engagement then marriage but it all sounds too soon rather than happy. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fate100percent +, writes (10 October 2011):
If you're not comfortable being 'lovely dovey' for example in company I think you just have to tell him (politely!) and emphasise it's no reflection on your feelings for him, it's just how you are.
I once went out with someone who was forever out of work, and my family weren't overly keen either...!(I realsise now though, they were just wanting the best for me!)
I would just tell him you're enjoying his company and want to live for right now, and not think too far ahead as your still young.
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