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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm unsure how to handle a situation developing right now.Short pre-cursor, I got to know another girl this past year, things went pear shaped and we no longer speak, something that I regret very much (im unsure what i did wrong apart from emphasising that she had become more and more withdrawn from me.)Leads onto this new situation, my brother had a wedding and a girl I hadn't seen since I was 4 (I'm 26 now) was there. She is 35. I stayed with her family whilst my parents were abroad, so our families are well acquainted and she remembered me.The past 2 weeks, we text each other a lot, share lots of personal stuff in our lives. This is exactly how things developed with the other girl, before you know it, you start to fall for someone.The costs of this now would be immense, our family connections, her parents have terminal illness'. Despite knowing this, it is hard for me to temper down my enthusiasm to get to know her more, and nobody plans falling for someone :( , but this trajectory may result in that.How do I prevent this? If things do get deeper, I wanted to let her know I'm still hurting from what the last girl did to me and losing her as a mate is something too expensive to me. Please help folks!
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