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male
age
30-35,
*andomando
writes:My girlfriend and I had been broken up for a month now. She contacts me all the time and I usually ignore her. She texted me saying i love you and I miss you. So I decided to see her. i drove 6 hours to see her and she said she was excited to see me. We talked and cried and she yelled at me. a lot. I kept telling her the same stuff and she would make stuff up about me. Things like your friends told me this... I was mad because I know she was making those things up. The weird thing was we talked and she would cry on my shoulder. or we would cuddle together. and I would pet her head and kiss the top of her head. She started to freak out last night and left. She said she "shouldnt be here". and I tryed to get her to stay and just talk but she would yell at me like "ooo okay lets talk!! what do u want to talk about!! U broke my heart!!!!" and I just wanted to try to talk normally but she just yelled at me and left me in a mess.This morning she texted me 5 times to have breakfast after last night. Saying "i need to see you " "pleasseeeeee"...... I dont get this at all. but we had breakfast then came back to my house and watched television. She basically yelled at me some more. Then we cuddled like we used to do. and she put her head on me and fell asleep. She woke up and we talked for a little bit and she would hold me. It wasnt like I was holding her the whole time she was holding me. She was laying on me holding me..She said this doesnt change anything and she was still mad at me. and just yelled at me some more and left. Then she texted me agian and said "it was good seeing you". and "Im just confused"... She said stuff like I will never trust you again and we will never get back together.. But then y was she holding me? why would she tell me she loves me and misses me so much; if when I see her she hates me? I know she still has feelings for me. But what does this mean when she tells me 2 different things? Like shes telling me she loves me and shes telling me she hates me.. Do you see how this would be confusing mixed signals??? I need help.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 October 2011):
 Buddy you need a hobby or Xanax or both:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mixed-signals-from-my-ex-what-do-i.html
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