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writes:So i went out with my boyfriend to his works party they were throwing and i noticed that he was texting the whole time. Then on the way home (i drove cuz he was pretty drunk) i was able to see that he was texting this girl. After we were done fooling around in bed his phone goes off and i saw that it was the same girl he was texting with earlier and then my boyfriend says that his ex is calling him but he didnt pick up. So later that night while my boyfriend was sleeping his phone kept going off so i ended up taking a peek and read what he was texting to his ex. And he texted her that he misses her body and refered to me having "more cushion for the pushin" and she was saying something along the lines of how she misses him and how the sex between them was amazing.I confronted him about this and at first lied to me about what they were talking about then i told him what i saw he appologized and told me that he meant nothing by it and that him and his ex went through alot of stuff together and they have a weird relationship. And that he wants to be with me and not her. But i just dont know what to think. Any suggeations?
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reader, euphrasia  +, writes (11 October 2011):
hey,your boyfriend is a lair.i can say am in a simillar situation to yours except am the ex girlfriend.my ex bf has a new gf but he texts me most of the time,sometimes we even meet up to chat.he tells me how he misses me,and how he wishes things were different and that he wants things to go back to the way they were.but he is still with the new gf.he started dating her less than a week after we broke up.well in this whole mess, if i wanted to get my ex bf back i wud have coz he gave me all the green light but i don't want to......what i can tell you is your bf is not honest with your,if he really loved and cared about you he wouldn't do such things behind your back.just like my ex bf your bf doesn't know what he wants....you deserve better.
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reader, XxMishxX +, writes (11 October 2011):
yeah are you going to believe that? All the warning signs are there, texting all the time, late night phone calls and lying to you until you told him what you saw. if there was nothing to hide why didnt he answer the phone in front of you? if it was innocent?? why lie to your face when you asked him? if he can lie to your face about that then he can lie about anything. He probably thinks you'll believe him. i think its pretty obvious they are having an affair or at least thinking about it.He wants his cake and eat it and while he thinks he can get away with it and string you along with his lies, he'll continue to do it. Dump this guy cause you deserve better then him, he'll probably never tell you the truth, he's already proved he can lie to your face. You should dump his ass and find a guy that will treat you like a princess and with respect.good luck
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