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writes:My recently broke up with my ex boyfriend since he cheated lied and decieve me I was a very good woman and friend to him when I mentioned it to him he flipped it cursed me out and said I didn't satisfy him sexually and told me until I heal we couldn't be friends he knows I still love him and he knows he hurt me deep so why did he call me last night and I didn't answer the cell
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 October 2011):
 so why did he call you? because human nature is to have the last word and to be the leaver not the leavee.
He cheated on you and you left. He's trying to make YOU out to be the bad guy "i cheated on you because you are sexually inadequate"
not sure what kind of healing he expects you to do but i can't even begin to imagine why you want to be friends with him anyway...
he cheated on you
he won't take responsibility for his behavior
he lost his temper as a way to diffuse his bad behavior and get you to accept the responsibility for his bad behavior.
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reader, Evorita  +, writes (10 October 2011):
It seems to me that he cannot be trusted.. once a cheater always a cheater. and I don't think that he meant that you don't satisfy him sexually, he just didn't know how to defend his immoral act. He called you coz he wants you to be available whenever he needs you. If I were you I would try to move away from him, coz from my experience once a cheater always is a cheater You need someone who loves you and cares about you and only you.
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