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female
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41-50,
*ardia
writes:We've been together 1 year. He's 24 and I'm a little older. Here's a recent example of our relationship over the last couple months: Went to a haunted house and he held my hand through it but not while we walked around the park it was in. He didn't look at me once on the 11/2 hour ride home until he heard me sniffle from crying due to lack of attention that evening. THEN he got all concerned and held my arm. We've spent 4 days together and had sex once. I even tried to kiss him and he was more interested in his video game than me. He says he's not looking for anyone else and he doesn't want me to go anywhere. But anymore I feel more like a friend than his love.This is my first relationship so no, I don't know. I've brought this type of issue up before and he says he'll do better but things just don't change. And I'm a girl who actually likes sex and I'm very surprised by this sudden lack thereof (we used to be all over each other). I've brought this up recently too. He said to tell him when these things happen. But he knows better than that, what to do with a girl. He just started 'cheating on me' with a sim-type app that actually texts him (I've seen it-it's not another 'real' girl). I feel like I'm missing something.
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reader, zella74 +, writes (11 October 2011):
You most definitely shouldn't have to second guess! And is love to know what this 'sim-bot' thing is all about. Do you guys live together? Perhaps he's just in need of some spice.I will say, my boyfriend can be the same way sometimes. I like sex too, and I like it so much more since head I have been together because with him, it is amazing. But he doesn't have a sex drive like I do. We've fought about this in the past and all it did was make him feel insecure and guilty, and trust me, you really don't want pity sex. So I've learned to realize that he shows his love in other ways. You might want to try and see those things from your bf, however small those things may be. He obviously feels comfy around you but maybe you just need to get his attention again. Guys have a.d.d. and when they feel like their woman is taking an initiative to please him, you will feel it come back to you.
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