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writes:So long story short I dated a guy for 5 months , he was all over me loving me so so much and telling me that I'm the one he always wanted to end up with , we live 6 hours away from each other , after we spent our first weekend together he started changing and although he denied ir but sth has radically changed and he started nagging about personal and financial issues till I realised through his twitter that a girl is obviously flirting with him and she posted that she loved their evening together making it clear that there's sth goinng on between them . I got very upset because of putting up with all his cold behavior and I had a fight with him where I insulted him and cursed him badly . It's been few weeks now since the fight . Never heard from him again . Do you think he should have gotten in touch given the fact of how in love with me he claimed he was ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe says nothing has changed but in fact he changed in terms of love showing , we were having a long distance relationship and I was resisting at start cause I know it's gonna be a hassle but he kept promising that he has planned how to solve out this issue and he even spoke about marriage and honeymoon . Financially he's very ok , I know for a fact he had a bank issue that he sorted out , and when he was nagging all the time with me he was flirting with that woman thinking that I don't check twitter . He used to call daily twice to express his undying love , after the weekend he reduced his calls and the tone has changed and everytime I used to ask him when we were gonna see each other he always replied that he doesn't know so no more plan as he promised !
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you jonas , no he was definitely not spending one penny on me ! What surprises me more is that he introduced me to all his friends and his children (he's divorced ) and he kept insisting that nothing has changed although it was a radical change , I forgot to mention also that he's 35 yearss older than me . We had 2 small fights before the actual break up but nothing major and he said that he doesn't deal well with fights and he was changing even before that .
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