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*ovee_Tiffany
writes: Hi I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we've been in a relationship for 9months now. I haven't had sex with anyone yet but when I plan to I plan on using condoms , we've been talking about having sex before , I'm a virgin but he's not , I trust him 100% but I'm scared because he's pretty big and like when we do foreplay I get really wet but then when he trys to put it in I get scared and push him away, I want to know what can make penetration easier for me where there's less pain ? What should I do now- I need answers please !!? "/
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011): Please disregard the advice about silicone-based lubes. Those make condoms ineffective. If you are using condoms use a water-based lube.
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reader, Lovee_Tiffany +, writes (7 July 2011):
Lovee_Tiffany is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut how do I stop being so scared of it ?
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reader, Lovee_Tiffany +, writes (7 July 2011):
Lovee_Tiffany is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks , ill try it
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (6 July 2011):
Two recommendations: One, lube for sex. Something silicone based and long lasting.
Two-DO not have sex with just condoms only. Get a backup birthcontrol. Condoms DO break sometimes.
Get the peace of mind too.
Also, He needs to take his time with you, go slowly and not try to go all in at once.
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