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writes:Any advice on why this girl i was with would say this after only the second date! Is this her way of telling me she isn't interested or what was she trying to tell me? Because only last week she said she liked me!! And now realised this...She said she doesn't know if she wants to get involved with a guy at the moment. But she does like me and is sure of that. Just she feels she jumps into things too quickly without thinking about it, or knowing what she wants. And has noticed that she hasn't been just her for a while.What does she mean by she hasn't been just her? In fact, what does any of that mean? I've really liked her for a while, so you can imagine how happy i was to know she felt the same. Now i don't know what is going on with us or what to do/say?She said she still wants to carry on seeing me and doesn't want me to avoid her, but worries about leading me on and us rushing into something after what she just said. That i understand, but i don't know if us still carrying on seeing each other is a good idea then when she feeling like that? Does this mean were not going to happen... Reply to this Question
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reader, sleepingbeauty  +, writes (7 July 2011):
Sounds like she's just horny and wants to have "fun." So...make a decision. Do you want something serious. or do you want to have "fun?"
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (7 July 2011):
 My guess is that she is telling you upfront that she is not ready for anything serious.
Agree to date others, have fun, and enjoy eachothers company.
It is OK to date someone if you like them.
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reader, xAngeliquex  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 She might have some commitment issues, I say that in the nicest possible way. I'm sort of like that, I come up with all sorts of excuses when all I actually want to say is I like you, but can we not rush into this, I want to take this slow and enjoy ourselves, and if it becomes serious then so b it!
We are complicated creatures, and speak rather cryptically sometimes
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