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female
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26-29,
*aughAlot2010
writes: Hey so I was at a festival and some guy asked me for my number. Being stupid... I gave it to him. At first it was cute but now he will not stop texting me and calling! I told my parents because hes freaking me out so I told him that i was getting my phone taken away for 2 weeks. He still texted me!!! I dont know if I should keep ignoring him or just tell him to leave me alone. Advice please?(:
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reader, doublejack +, writes (6 July 2011):
I think if you just ignore him, he will eventually lose interest and disappear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Have you actually told him that you dont want him contacting you anymore ? You need to be honest.he cant read your mind.he must like you a lot,and he could be a lonely person.is he shy or outgoing,and does he have a lot of friends ?.has he said anything bad that has made you not want to speak to him?. please be polite if you tell him not to contact you though.
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reader, tinaemd +, writes (6 July 2011):
Check if you can block numbers from your mobile. If not get a new sim card with a new number, (they are free, or next to) to ensure he doesn't try other means to contact you text him prior to the blocking/number change and explain you did not mean to lead him on but you do not want any further contact then block or change sim. May stop him tracking you through Facebook or beebo or similar.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Block his number and if all else fails report him to the police.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (6 July 2011):
Next time he texts, get one of your parents to phone him back and advise him his contacting you in any way, shape of form is not welcome. That should stop him.
Either way, its a problem you are not handling, so give it to your parents to fix.
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