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Any tips to help me last longer?

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Question - (6 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Firstly, I have been with two and the first was a bit of a bad experience but the second one was a lot better and when we first started sleeping together after the first few times of nerves I was fine and the sex was great. However, after so long my ability to last just went. I went from being able to last for ages and almost control when I finished to being lucky if I could make 2 minutes. I have no idea what caused this but it has really been annoying me despite her saying it's fine it still gets me down and confuses me as to why this has happened. Any ideas guys? Or any tips on how to last longer?

Also I have recently split up with this girl and am feeling a little nervous about meeting new girls. Not because I am lacking confidence or being scared of meeting new people but because I don't really want to go to sleep with a new girl and be finished before they've even begun enjoying it!

If you guys have any tips on lasting longer or anything I can do outside of the bedroom to help me last longer please let me know. Also does masturbation cause any problems with lasting longer as I have heard a few things about this and obviously if I can do something specific to make it last longer for when I find someone else that would be helpful.

Thanks in advance for your answers and help. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011):

if all you're worried about is her pleasure, do things with your fingers and tongue.. otherwise just try it at a slow pace ;)

if all else fails think about someone ugly haha

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