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writes:sometimes when i masturbate i think about my cousins and second cousins. they are pretty and i know this sounds wrong but i think they are hot. its just so much easier to think of them because they are so hot! is it wrong for me to do this? any other suggestions? what should i think of?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Ever heard the saying, "You are what you eat"? Some would say you are what you repeatedly think about. After fantasizing about your cousins dozens or hundreds of times, do you think that would have no effect on how you perceived or related to them in real life? Why take the risk when you could as easily imagine a fictional person instead?Many will say fantasies don't matter as long as they're not acted upon. Yet if your dad had pornographic fantasies about your cousins too, or your mom purposely lusted after her nephew, or your uncle wrote erotic stories about you with your sister, I doubt you'd feel ok with any of that. Whether acted on or not, some fantasies are less healthy than others.If you can come up with a reason why sexually fantasizing about family members and relatives while masturbating is somehow more appropriate and healthy than imagining your future soulmate or spouse, I'd like to hear it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): No not at all. I've done the same. Mothers, grandmothers, sisters and daughters are the only ones that are off limits for any kind of sexual thoughts. Everyone else is fair game for a wank.
In all my years I've probably masturbated at the thought of any hot woman I've ever met. We do need a constant supply of fresh fantasy material.
Don't worry about it, but if it makes you feel weird or uneasy then just think about someone else.
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Quite simply NO, what on earth could be wrong with it? When I was your age I used to jerk off to my teacher, the woman across the street, my mates mum and even my very, and I mean smoking hot aunty!
All those years of jerking off never did me or anyone else any harm.
But ok, if you want to listen to the advise below, you might as well go jerk off to latest share index.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): quite simply, YES. Sure, you think of your cousins differently to brothers and sisters. This is because you maybe spend less time with them and think of them as friends and it is easier to appreciate that they are pretty. you are what 16/17, you are at the age where most girls are hot. for me its fine that you think they are hot, but masturbating over them. NO. Try porn or lads magazines to take your mind of them.
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