A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello I just want you guys to help me with my situation right now.. I been single for almost 3months now from a long distance relationship.. so now, i have this guy who is very nice, kind , loving and respectful ,and he lives on the other side of the world but made me felt something about him,... i always enjoy every time i talk to him.. and he always tell me he loves talking to me, .. he misses me always, he is thinking about me all the time, so am i..well right now, he told me he wants me...what does it mean? does he want me to be his girl? or he wants me because he wanna have sex with me someday... actually, i want him too.. but i am just scared that i might have a relationship that is not gonna work out since its gonna be LDR again,. i dont wanna make the first move to tell him i want him coz i dont want to be rejected..and i am protecting myself coz he might be like my ex.. so tell me guys, what shall i do or what should i not do?
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (6 July 2011):
 How much do you know him? A long distance affair is very slow development type of relationship.
Don't fall with what he tells you, some men are using what women want to hear to take advantage.
Get to know him more if your relationship is still in an early stage and most especially don't do things he likes you to do over net...if he runs away because you are not giving what he wants then he is not into you but just looking for some fun.
Ignore his words and listen to his actions.
You had a relationship before and it was a failure. Don't make the same mistakes but learn from it.
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