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writes:i broke up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date and have cut communication for about 5 months now, but i recently found out she was asking about me. She was asking if i was dating and talked to my sister about how much she missed me, and regrets breaking up but i have not received a call or any contact from her. Basically a long story short i moved to Los Angeles from Chicago to be with her, and the relationship not working was my fault i was immature and not responsible and trust issues. I have made a decision now having lived in Los Angeles a year by myself that it would be in my best interest to move back to Chicago soon, it is so hard being here alone so i have made my decision its going to hurt leaving but i have to do it. After the news i heard that me ex-fiance was asking about me i was happy but heart broken that she did not contact me after she told my sister she would, so now before i leave i want to write her a letter saying my last goodbye and also wishing her happy birthday because its coming up also, but i just want help on what i should write in my letter?? dear cupid u guys have been my support since my breakup here alone in a strange city, and now i ask you guys what should and should i not write in this final letter i am going to send my ex-fiance as my final goodbye which i need to do to get closure...
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reader, JayJay101 +, writes (6 July 2011):
JayJay101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys, im glad you have responded to my question it means a whole lot so i will write her a letter soon and explain everything but i will follow your guidelines..
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (6 July 2011):
Hi there. Just be open and honest and say everything that you feel.
All the thoughts that are going through your head and that you are moving back to Chicago soon, because you have been thinking about it for a while now, and believe that it's the right decision.
Also, tell her that you miss your family and friends back home.
Wish her a happy birthday and wish her all the best in the future.
Tell her also, that you wish her happiness and love, and hope she meets someone worthy or her.
You could say you still consider her to be a friend and will always love her (if love is what you still feel, that is).
Don't say you want to get back with her again, leave that bit out.
You could also mention that your sister seen her recently. Then she will know that you know, what she said to your sister.
Just supposing you and her got back together again, it might not be so good the second time around. You could regret it.
Sometimes, a clean break is for the best.
Good luck and best wishes.
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