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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm a male who's turning 16 next month. To to the point now. First,I will need to tell you the story :).Alright. Sometime during the beginning of April I started hanging out with this girl and her friend. We've "known" each other since 8th grade or so.I'll call the first girl "J" and the other girl "E". Alright. So we started hanging out all the time,during school,outside of school,etc. I was talking to "J" and I asked her if she liked someone. She said she liked a guy in our class. I asked her to describe him in one word and she said "Smart". So,what I did was guess once on who it was and her answer was: "How'd you know? o_o". It was really just a lucky guess...I keep drifting away from the point x_x,sorry.Anyways. I did the same with "E",she said it was someone from the class and she asked me to guess. I guessed on ALL the guys in our class and she said "Nope". Then I HAD to ask if it was me and she answered "You're a really nice and sweet guy,but it's not you :)". By this time I had no options left so I said "Do you like "J" ?" jokingly. Her answer was "You finally noticed? xD". By this point I saw both of them as sisters,we were REALLY good friends and we shared everything. Then one day(Around the middle of May),I started to evolve feelings for "E". I wanted to tell someone cause I had never liked someone this much. I chose to tell "J". She said it was cute and all,but after a couple of days she told me (through facebook)that "I have grown feelings for "E",too..." .2 weeks ago they both went on vacation. "E" went to Kurdistan and "J" went to Finland. A few days earlier I had a dream about me telling "E" how I feel, and unfortunately it didn't turn out so well. But I had to make a choice so I told her that I would tell her about a dream I had when she have landed on Kurdistan. I told her the dream and how I feel about her and she said that she likes me too.Me and her were talking constantly on Facebook until I had made a decision to "drop a bomb on her". I told her that "J" likes her,she said that she would be lying if she says that the "news" doesn't make her happy. Me and "E" weren't/aren't really BF/GF, we are in an "in between",I guess? Recently both have been blocking me on Facebook(Blocking = Making a separate chat group and putting me in there and then making that chat room "Show as offline"). How I know this is that I see them liking different statuses,commenting statuses,etc. I might be overly paranoid but do you think they're having an on going affair behind my back? Or are they just talking about me in general? "E" might have told "J" about us,but i doubt it. I'm high over heels about "E". I think of her constantly,I sit day and night on facebook waiting for her to login. I've started crying multiple times. I miss her sooo much. If you have any advice/pointers for me,please tell me,I'm all ears.I just noticed how long this text is ^^;. Thank you for reading and thank you in advance.PS: I haven't re-read the text,it's 6am and I can't sleep xD. So sory for any sort of typos.
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reader, misspurple  +, writes (7 July 2011):
Aww you sound so sweet. I'm afraid if they like each other there is nothing you can do, i'm sure you wouldnt want to come between what they have. What you should do is tell the girl you like that you like her and see what happens. If it doesn't go the way you planned no matter how hard it is you will have to move on and leave them to it. Just carry on being the friend to them you have all this time if you can. This is only what i would do i am not a professional. Good luck :)
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