Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?

A female age , *oz writes:

I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion someone made a comment about her being man like and he looked at her breast in front of me and said mmmmm....I don't think so! When she has called at the house on occasion she says I love you when she hangs up. When she is going to see him driving a bus to a field trip together she calls and lets him know. He told me I am a horses ass and through his hand towards me to give me the blow off. I feel disrespected and do not feel this is an appropriate behavior for a married man. Am I over reacting. I don't feel insecure with my body or my looks so am I expecting too much.

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