Texting is ruining our relationship

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid ,ive just broke up with my boyfriend of two years, because these past few months have been rocky and im not getting enough attention in our relationship.he spends no quality time and i feel neglected because all we do is text.we havent had an actual conversation in weeks,he promises he will call everyday but instead I get a text.we use to talk everday.he even has the nerve to text me asking for sex and I refuse because he wont even make an effort to actually spend time with me.the last straw was when he didnt call on my birthday;he just texted me and I expected something more personal .when I confront him about not spending time he always says its me who is always busy,or he has alot of hard times going on in his life or his head is messed up(whatever that means)and hes sorry he takes it out on me.none of these excuses make any sense to me.even though he called and appologized after I broke up with him I dont know if I should take him back.i am very much still in love with him an I know he does love me but I cant be in a relaionship where im not appreciated.he promises he will change but ive heard it before.what do you think??do all long term relationships have these up and downs?? Should I move on or not

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