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female
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26-29,
*llexthegreat
writes:Okay so, I have now been with my boyfriend for two months. I know its not that long. He says he loves me and I say I love him. Im not really sure if I do though. You see we were best friends before we got together! Its bunch of us, its our. "Click". I don't really like him like that anymore, but im scared to break things off with them because they're my friends you know? Like that's my life pretty much. There's this one guy in the group and its his best friend and im dying for him. He's amazing in every single aspect. I want him so bad its not funny and I can tell he likes me back. We have kinda got caught hanging out behind my boyfriends back and it caused some problems. (He's really jealous) I just don't know what to do I like his best friend soooo much and im scared to break things off with him because my friends are all I have ever known. Someone please help me!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 May 2011):
 Well if they are you're friends then they shouldnt chose sides between you and your boyfriend and fall out with you if you break up with him. Explain to him that you just dont have that romantic connection with him but that you still want to be close friends with him.
As for his best friend well this is a different matter. If you chose to go with him it will cause a lot of pain and hurt. It will hurt your current boyfriend and also it will effect there friendship and a lot of people may fall out with you then as well because you hurt so many people.
Therefore my advice is if you dont want to be in this relationship with your boyfriend well then dont be, but stay away from his friend.
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