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writes:whats the best way to handle someone that you classed as a close friend but have discovered they have been nothing but deceitful and lied to you and used you for personal gain but when confronting them they act like youre mad and deny everything ? im so hurt Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): You sever all ties with the person. Case closed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): I've been there. Conned completely. You need to take the wisdom you've gained from the experience and understand it may have a profound effect on your ability to trust people in the future. Just remember, if they did it once, they'll do it twice. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): Do you want be more specific? If you tell us the situation maybe we can help you understand it better. Other than that, don't let people walk all over you, if someone betrays you once then you ditch them. There 6 billion other potential friends on this planet, no point in wasting time on one that has screwed you over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): You stay being their friend, let them convince you you're wrong then when they do it again just go through this all over again.
The best way to handle someone who fucks you over and won't even have the decency to stand up, admit it and make things right is to tell them to fuck off and never talk to them again. (Pardon my language)
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