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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:O my gosh. Pleas help ...Me and my girlfriend . It's the best relationship I ever had.She knows exactly how to turm me on and everything was fine. Then wen we wanted to do it... The my disobedient willie went soft on me. I know my girlfriend, and she would feel bad, because she would think she is not sexy for me. But she is. And everything she does I can feel is a turn on. But nothing happens... And I feel embaressed about it... Seriously. How do I fix this?/ how do I make sure my willie doesn't go "soft" on her again. ??? I love her and she loves me. But I know this is eating at her. Why would such a thing happen, when I desire her so much? It happens at the worst time. Now i get anxious and that makes it worse. And how do I fix this??Really need an answer . Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow it's like you were there. This also happend twice to mee. And Yes I was nervous and scared it would happen again after the first time and it did.
Really apresiate that advice . And It's exaktly true. Thank you. And yes she did wrap her arms around me and gigeld in my ear. Haha it made me feel beter. Though I was still embarresed. Thanx
I think it was fear haha. I will stop worying and let IT ... come naturally and not focus on it. Thanx alot.
lOads of help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): Hi there I have recently had this problem myself.In my case we were so turned on and excited about each other and everything was going fine right up to that moment of penetration, then he went limp. He was very embarassed, I just wrapped my arms around him and said it was okay, I knew he was very nervous and it would be fine in time. Next time it happened again.I knew I should try ot talk about it and I broached it very carefully.It turned out he that he was petrified he would not be good enough, big enough,or too 'quick' for me.He saw me as very self confident and sexy and held me in awe!!Maybe this is whats happening with you (you do say its the best relationship you have had)I reassured him that I really loved him and that we were meant to be and therefore everything would be perfect.The next time it was!!!You need to think of your lady as a normal person, not worry about previous relationships, your size, stamina, etc.Try to keep calm and take things slowly and I'm sure you will be okay even if it takes a few times more.If your lady thinks a lot of you, she will understand and be patient.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): well pal all of us have a problem at least once in a while- however you might want to talk to a DR to see if it could be medical- as diabetes or other condistions may be at work with your body-
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