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writes:hey I'm 15 years old and i think i am a lesbian but i am not realy sure i hevent had a boyfriand or ever liked a boy so i am a bit confused i am from bulgaria so if you find any mistakes sorry so if any of you can help me i would be really thankful last year i start going to a new school and i meet three girls we become really fast friends naw we are best friends and recently i started to have feelings for one of them i never felt that way for anybody first i thought that it was just an attraction but i sterted to feel more for her and soon it turned to love and i cant tell her because she is straight and she hates lesbians and i am afriad to tell her because i might lose her and i dont wnat that because i alredy lost someone special to me i dont know what to do to stop having this feelings so if anyone can help me i will be really thankful
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reader, matureflowerx  +, writes (1 May 2011):
 Maybe she doesn't hate lesbians but just doesn't understand them. I know she is your best friend and you don't want to stop hanging around with her but maybe spend more time with other friends or join a club and meet new people. I am sure that you would be able to find a chatroom or forum online for young teens like you who are confused about their sexuality but don't have anyone to talk to. You shouldn't feel alone either as this happens to a lot of people. It happened to me when I was younger. I do consider myself straight but I have "experimented" with friends who were curious as well and it just wasn't for me. I think I understand how you feel sometimes I feel naturally attracted to someone and it is not because of their gender (boy/girl) but who they are in their heart and their personality. I really hope you work something out but you aren't alone. A lot of teens feel this way but just don't say it.
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reader, katherine234 +, writes (30 April 2011):
katherine234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice thats what i am trying to do to get over her but its really hard because at the same time she is my best friend and we are really close and its har beeing differend where i live i havent told my friends yet that i am lesbian i am afraid to lose them and i am all alone and it will relly help me to have someone to talk to
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reader, redlipzxx +, writes (30 April 2011):
Im sorry but if you love her you wont be able to stop theses feelings beleive me ive tried , well trying and all i can say is hang round her less try and fancy someone else x if you wan anymore advice then just ask from me x RedLIPZ
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