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writes:im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me.after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud. and i was standing right next to her. but she kept on looking at him.since then problems started coming. she use to stare at guys, she has a roving eye, she doesn look but stare, i asked her not to, cos in our culture its bad, but she neva left her habit. also she started lying to me. so we use to had frequent fights. also she use to delete the conversation on phone with her guy friends. she did a lot of things that hurt me. her guy friends used to send her sexual forward text messages. it was unbearable.now im a commercial pilot, i have a fantastic personality but im quite dark. she confessed dat she had problems me being dark. she neva took me to her friends for ds reason. n i guess shes not attracted to meone day, i called her up n asked where she was, she lied, i convinced her to tell me the truth, dn she said dat shes with a guy she met in her class. now she met him around 10 days before ds day, ds guy flirted with her. n hes an intelligent guy. he proposed my gf n he asked my gf to hang out with him. my gf was quite impressed by him n she agreed to meet him n went out with him alone in his car bunking her classes n spent 5-6 hours with him. she told me when he asked her to meet, she couldn't deny. ds s wat i figured out.i broke up with her, but she cried n asked for the last chance. its been 3 months now, n she still cries a lot n is behind me asking for one chance. now im very insecure, n i don trust her at all. im confused for the decision i need to take. please help!!
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (1 May 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,Honestly just give her one more chance because second chances rarely happens and we never really get second chances so it's our will to create them!You don't know what is going to happen next so give her another chance because you never know relationships can get better after a second chance.I know that your insecurities are all over the place but you gotta calm down and if you love her then give her a second chance.If you don't love her like truly deeply love her in your heart than you can take charge and say no but I think you should give her a second chance.HOWEVER... say you did give her a second chance and she still does the checking out guy thing even though you told her you don't like it then don't try and mend a broken glass coz your gonna get hurt!Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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