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writes:Ok, the backstory to this question is that late last year I found out that my boyfriend had been watching transsexual porn. I was really upset and confronted him in a very aggressive manner and we both got very upset. He insisted he was just curious and that it wouldn't happen again. I forgave him but it really shattered my trust and self-confidence. I feel as though we've almost worked through this, but I still get upset because I feel he is not being entirely honest with me.I know he isn't interested in meeting up with or having any encounters with an actual transsexual and I know that he is interested in male anal pleasure (which I'm ashamed to say I found out during some snooping that I did when my trust in him wasn't strong). I would be ok with experimenting with this if I could get him to just talk about with me. I don't know how to get him to open up and be honest as I'm afraid of being too forward and coming off as aggressive, and I think he is probably embarassed and will think that I'll be hurt or think he is gay if he tells me. I have told him before that I would be willing to try almost anything with him. So how do I get him to be more honest with me about his sexual fantasies?
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