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writes:Basically, I have tried to get with a girl I like, I think I now get the message she isn't as keen as I am, she always says she is bored, I offer to go out and do stuff with her, no response, buy her stuff, no comments. I think to keep wishing is bad news for me, she will hurt me soon in the future, even if she did appear keen earlier on.How can I ask her what changed, do you think she will say? Also what should I say so that we at the very least remain friends, although I think this conversation could make things a bit different between us and uneasy. I don't think forcing or begging someone to like you is a good road to go down. Reply to this Question
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (1 May 2011):
Hi - you have basically asnwered your own question even though you wish she would like you as much as you like her. If I were you I'd just ignore her now and look for someone else - if she has any feelings at all for you then this would bring them out, but also you may meet someone who is way more into you and than she is and she will see that shes the one the that will miss out
Good luck
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