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writes:i am completely useless in relationships and really need your help. I did go out with a guy for 4 years and he ended up cheating on me and i stayed single for a few years until i got over him. BUt lately i met this guy 3 months ago and we hit it off right away immediately i was happy because he was different to anyone else, and he was really happy too. however all of a sudden he ended it and didn't give me a reason why, i asked for an explaination and he wouldnt give me one so i just left it at that and deleted his number. Is it possible for someone to be so happy with another person and become so unaware that theres problems in the relationship? I'm 22 and this time it would be it and that he was the one, now i realise that i'm back to square one again - alone. None of my relationships ever work out, am i sleeping with them too early? Am i boring?? i just don't know what is wrong! I'm scared to jump into another relationship because im afraid of being hurt again, i've been hurt too many times and i just don't think i could take it anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): i realised quite a while ago, that im attracted to the wrong type of girl. For some reason, if I pity them, I want to be with them.
Who know why?? But I decided that I wasnt goinh to keep walking down this unhappy road and started dating different types of girls with different passions.
You might fing that you are making the same mistake I was.
But Hang in there, you will meet someone special
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Everything happens for a reason . You met the wrong guys and you learned who are the bad guys to avoid from now.
Don't be afraid to fall in love. It is better to have loved and failed than not to have loved at all.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 March 2010):
It's more likely that you're meeting the wrong guy. You met one, went out with him and he ended up cheating. You met another who stopped seeing you and wouldn't give you an explanation. I'd suggest that you look very carefully at the type of guy you're attracted to.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Look for any problems leading up to the break ups, was there arguments? did the guys distance themselves from you?When a new relationship starts, people are sometimes infactuated meaning they can see no wrong in the other person, they think there madly in love but when this feeling has left they may see things in a different light.If a guy is really hooked on you you will notice he will listen to you, he will go out of his way to be with you and probably do little things to please you.Its probably not you and could just be the type of guys your attracting. Try and step back and take a look of what went wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): I don't know the answer to that, I wish I did because I am the same. Except I have had it going on for longer as I am now in my late thirties!! I just wanted to say that I know how you feel, and that you are not alone with it.
I have decided to settle with the man I have just met because at least he loves me, even though I don't feel the same for him. Not that I am suggesting you do this, you have youth on your side. Wish you luck!
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