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writes:hiii!!i am linda!!my bf says that my vagina was loose wen we had sex for the first time..!!!he jus suspects me a lot tat i mite hav had sex before and that i m not a virgin wen i slept wid him:(...!!but im sure that i dint hav sex before:(...he was the first person whom i loved and had sex:(...i hav 2 questions...how can i make my vagina tight?how can i prove him that i was a virgin before i slept wid him?:(
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reader, FarmersGirl  +, writes (6 May 2010):
This is a common problem that women face to feel that they're man isn't as happy as he could be because their vagina seems loose. It happened to me a few years back after I had a child, so I know how it feels. You need to learn to do kegel exercises and other vaginal tightening exercises that work your PC muscle to make it contract better. Check out this link for the book that got me started. You'll be able to show your man how much you really love him and give him the greatest time he's ever had in bed.
http://tinyurl.com/VaginaKegel
Good luck and give the book a shot if you want to.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (15 March 2010):
You don't have to prove anything about your sexuality to this jerk. You are not married to him. Move on to someone who will respect & appreciate you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Wow, this boyfriend of yours sounds like a complete jerk. Ask him how many vaginas he's sampled, and that woman's vagina can vary in it's tightness even for the same woman based on the day of her cycle, and other things.
Yes you can do Kegel excercises, google that and you shoul find all sorts of information.
But are you sure that you want to be with a man that was so rude to you after your first time, with him? Seems like he is only interested in one thing....that or devaluing you and criticizing you to make you insecure so that you don't go having sex with anyone else. If he continues to put you down, you should dump him.
If it were me, and someone called me a liar about being a virgin, I think I would opt out completely and tell him to hit the road, but that's me. I think this is a bad sign of more of the same to come from this guy. Pay attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Well one way that I know how to tighten up your vagina is by doing keagal exercises which is basically flexing your pubic muscle. Flex inward, dont push outward, hold it as long as you can, then repeat. I have practiced keagal exercises since I was little, even though I had no idea what they were, I would just do them when I was bored lol. When I was dating some men used to think I was a virgin because I was so tight. They would think I WAS lying to them so I could sound "cool." I would always laugh at them and say that having sex doesn't make anyone cool and that I wasn't lying to them. I have also recently had a baby and the keagal exercises tightened me back up within five weeks. Anyways I'm not too sure how you will convince your bf that you were a virgin, I would think that he would believe you! Don't think it is only you though, because I know several women whose boyfriends said they felt loose even though they were virgins. My belief is that everyone is individual, and it also depends on how much the muscles are exercised, and no I don't mean through sex lol. I hope that helped. ^_^
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