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writes:almost a year ago i had a boyfriend who i loved so much, but in the end things never worked out and i found out that he had passed me chlamydia, i didnt know i had it until a few months after we broke up. i went to the clinic and took anti-biotics and they said no sex while on treatment, but a few weeks before i even found out i had chlamydia i slept with a boy, and then after i was treated me and that boy got together and we have been for a year now, but i must of passed it to him when i didnt know i had it, then would he of passed it to me when i slept with him again? (we never used a condom) stupid i know i was so drunk at the time, im usually careful. but if he has gave it back to me after i gave it to him that means i have left it untreated for a year, i only thought about this the other day and i clicked on that i could have it...im getting a test sent to me by post, but now my boyfriend is going to think i cheated if i have chlamydia but i havent it was just because i might of passed it to him and he passed it back to me when we got together as a couple. im now really scared if i do have it, i wouldnt know how to tell him it makes me sound like a tart, but thats not me it was just i was careless at the time because i was drunk, i dont sleep about or anything. could there be a chance i have it? if i do have it how do i tell him? And eventhough im young now do you think this could make me infertile, im scared of that because i would love to have kids when im a bit older?.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Just tell him he didnt use a condom either so dont let him put the blame on you you need to tell him so he can get checked, if he breaks up over this so be it but you need to tell him your a tart if you dont.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (16 March 2010):
 I think you should go get checked. Do that first. If you do have it, then be honest with your boyfriend. Eveyone deserves honesty. you must take responsibilty for your drunk mistake, its unfortunate, but its the right thing to do. It will be hard, but its whats right.
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reader, SceneXaddicted +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Your best bet is to get checked anyways. He should be able to understand the situation and if he really loves you he will trust you and be more concerned of the well being for both of your sexual relations and future (.IE. having children) I am no doctor so I cant tell you if it can make you infirtle, but getting tested and treated are the only ways to make something change. Otherwise it could just stay there or you could just worry yourself.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (16 March 2010):
You should just go to the doctor and be tested, do you know what the symptoms for chlamydia are? If your boyfriend really cares about you, then he will listen to what you have to say. Just go get yourself checked out, and always use condoms!
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