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writes:My girlfriend started chatting to her friends using a cam a while back, it was ok at first as it was only an hour here and there but now it's getting more serious.She found out about lifecasting and now has the cam on almost 24 hours a day. She hardly goes out and now she's missing a lot of time off work.The cam is sometimes on when she's asleep and it just creeps me out knowing strangers are watching her everymove.It's been ages since we did anything like go away for a weekend ect.I think she has a problem, she says she loves me and everything is ok between us and that it's just a cheap way to stay in touch with friends.What do you think?Thanks for reading :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): nice take you top off love
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Major problem ive been there the net is like a drug to some people You need to help your gal to be more aware that theres more to life than looking at a camra all day Have you spoken to her about this and how its troubling you.You could say about her job not being there if she keeps missing work and sort out some time away from your house dinner or a movie Allso look for support group to do with this problem because that what it is.If that fails take the computer for a service anything to get her out of the habbit best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Its creepy. How serious are you with her? If you're not that serious, consider skipping out on this one, its a major red flag. For all you know she might be broadcasting you and her having sex as well. Or recording you without you knowing it.
Not to forget: she never goes out and the whole thing is just creepy. She also sound addicted and doesnt take care of herself, missing out on work like that. Treat this like an addiction: either she gets rid of it, or you get rid of her.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 It sounds like she's got an obsession or addiction to the web cam, especially as she's missing work because of it. Get rid of the cam (or hide it in a very good spot!) and have her see a doctor to try to help her get better as this sounds very serious.
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