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*ixedUpMe
writes:Hallo great helper!Am wondering what to do.My ex has finally managed to win his way back..I met him over the weekend after months of writing,a few phones and the like. His latest statement-"you love me, i love you, so take me and be happy."My current guy (have been with him for a yr now)-has found out through one of the few sms from my ex.Somehow, its a confusing situation, but on the other hand, am enjoying it, I have spoken to my current guy about it, and my ex knows i have a relationship.lam enjoying the time am spending with these wonderful guys, the cuddling, talks,sex.and most of all its so wonderful that they are there for me, no one seems hurt.Do i have to choose between them? I cant because i dont know how, why.MixedUp!
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reader, Realitycheck  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 The longer you go in this state of "limbo" the more cloudy reality becomes, the more addicted to will become to the attention of two men. What's that old saying? "Together they make the perfect man" half of one that does these things you like, and half of the other that does those things and viola if you can juggle both you will have it all. Not true. It will never work out and you may end up with nothing. Sit down, make a pro-con list see who has the most "pros" and go for that one. Be honest. You cannot continue to toy with the affections of two men for very long (especially since they already know about each other). Pick one my dear.
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