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writes:so I'm trying to figure out how to express my love for this guy. I'm writing him a letter but I don't know how to start it or anything I know what I want to say but I don't know how to put it on paper. can anyone help me ? please .. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Are you trying to write the letter all at once? If so, it might help if you break it down a bit first. You could make a list of all the things you want to mention in the letter, so you don't forget anything, and work out in which order you'd like to say them. Or you could write down all the things you love about him, and take it from there. I do that if I am struggling to write something. I write some notes first, of everything I want to include, and then sort of join it all up into a letter. Or you could imagine he was with you, and say out loud what you want him to know...then write it down as you say it. Just be yourself in the letter, and I'm sure it will be fine. I hope this helps. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): I don't understand why you want to write a letter? Why don't you just call him or go up to him and ask him if he would like to grab a bite to eat or catch a movie? I am not sure about most people but I think that its not the norm to just step up to someone and say I LOVE YOU... you gotto get comfortable in each others space, get to know each other first... Good luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Tell him he's been on your mind alot, and that you feel you need to get it off your chest how you feel about him. Be direct, and if you don't know if he's single, ask if he is. Don't say you love him, but that you feel you might be interested in him(not that you 'are' interested in him). Be honest, but don't make him feel that you like him so much that he can mess with you or hurt your feelings. Ask him if he would like to get together sometime, maybe for a coffee or a movie. Keep it short and sweet, maybe a paragraph, not two or three pages, because the longer it is the more he'll get psyched out and scared away. The shorter it is, the more he'll want to reach you to see what else you have to say, or how interested you are in person..sort of like handing someone just your phone number and they phone out of interest in the missing parts that aren't written on paper. Guys like mystery, so subtly let him in on the fact that you feel interested in getting together with him because of the things you like about him, and let the rest happen in real life. Don't say you feel he's attractive, because that's too vague, and you want to say things more along the lines of why you feel you like him or might get along well with him. Put your name and phone number on the bottom, and he'll most likely phone you if he's single.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 You can Google for those tips about how to write romantic love letters to him.
Men are simple creatures. Tell them you love them and it would suffice.They will understand simple English.
http://www.poemslovers.com/love_letters/i_love_you/18.html
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