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writes:me and my boyfriend been having some relationship problems for 5 months. we brake up and make up. i love him,he says he loves me too. he doesnt show it. he doesnt wanna hang out with me in daylight anymore. everytime we do its like movies or over his house at night. because hes busy with his friends and family. so anyways i met this guy 8 months ago. he was into me since day one we met. a friend introduce him to me and we started talking. throughout these months hes been hitting on me but i reject him i told him i love my boyfriend. throughout these months me and him never hung out. we just text so i wasnt into him. but we decided to meet and hang out like a week ago. and he was trying to convince me leave my boyfriend for him. i replyed no, i cant, i love him. but since that day i saw him i like him. but hes a party person, and every girl likes him. i cant imagine myself dating him because of that. he can cheat on me. although my boyfriend treats me bad i feel unlove. he talks to his ex crush but when i tell him who were you talking to your crush, he says yeah, but he doesnt corrects me by EX crush!. every day its a threat he tells me if you dont like how i am then leave. i feel hurt when i hear those words. i need love. i just dont know what to do. i like this guy but i love my boyfriend.
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (16 March 2010):
I know what it's like to be treated badly by a guy I loved. It's absolutely heart-wrenching and terrible. Being free from that, is great after a while though. I'd say that if you're boyfriend is threatening to leave you and is not acting right, leave. As extreme as it seems, this relationship is going nowhere fast. Get out before it hurts even more to get out.
I'm not sure if you should jump straight to a new guy after a breakup like that. Lots of people do... I did! It didn't make for a productive relationship though, I'm warning you.
Best of luck,
Feel free to message me with questions,
--GG
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reader, abcsummertime123 +, writes (16 March 2010):
i no this is hard, and maybe its not right for you (personal advice from one person isnt always right for another person) but if that guy is threatening sayin go ahead and leave me, then he might want you to and doesnt want to do it himself. or maybe he is jsut gettin tired of being in a relationship. you could let him go but if he does love you eventually he might come back but if u let him back in your life it tells him that its ok to wander around messing with other girls.
and as for the guy you met if he is tellin you to leave your boyfriend he isnt a good guy. he might see you as a challenge. and if a guy really did like you he would respect you! and not ask you to break up with ur bf.
*** dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love
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reader, desiree1 +, writes (16 March 2010):
listen to your heart and follow your heart because your heart is realy what you wat to do if so u want to be with this man then be with him but!!! if you love your boyfriend dont do it and from what im hearing your boyfriend not really doin the boyfriend this trust me your heart always right
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