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female
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30-35,
*nloveagain_y
writes:Hey all :)i'm in a bit of a situation. there's thing guy i've known for 2 years. i started liking him after a year. he teases me about my other guy friends, talks to me quite a bit, and we spend a lot of time together because of school, tuition etc. he keeps asking me whom i like.ultimately i gave in and told him. he smiled and said he knew it all along. we both forgot about it. but our friendship's strengthened after this. we talk a LOT. and he keeps trying to talk to me. today we stayed on 2 hrs after class to 'solve sums' and talked our heads off, alone.he keeps telling me abt a girl who he asked out who turned him down and how he fears love. keeps bringing it up. when i asked if he could like me, today he told me he may like me but for this fear. when i asked him if he was just being nice he told me to take it as i want to.i find this guy really confusing. e doesn't spend this much time or talk as much to any other girl. please help me figure out what he means!! thanks in advance :) love :) Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 O.K. He said he's afraid because of a girl turning him down. So, if you really like him, and you want to break through this rejection. I don't see anything wrong with you asking him out. He only says he can't love anybody. At your age may have some truth, but more of a self withdraw than a can't, but in actuality isn't true until he has a grasp on what real love is. His feelings would be more properly stated as, "I fear rejection, so I choose not to put myself in a loving position to avoid getting hurt."
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