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writes:I'm 14 and just lost my virginity one week ago. My boyfriend and I didn't use a condom. I was suppose to have my period this week but it hasn't came yet. Is this normal or may I be pregnant? I don't think he cum inside me but I'm not sure because it was quick since it was his first time (as well as mine). But if I am pregnant, I don't know how my parents will react. My 27 year old sister lives with my parents and me as well. She has a son of almost two years. My parents are supporting him since my sister can't get a job since she faints a lot. My other sister is in college and still lives at home. I have a brother that lives with his fiance and son. I also have one older sister that is married and lives with her husband but she can't have kids. I haven't told anyone this except my boyfriend and 4 close friends. I know I should have waited for a better time to have sex. What should I do?
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reader, TaylorNicole +, writes (6 April 2010):
TaylorNicole is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys! thank you all for answering me. I'm not pregnant and my period was just a week late which is normal. My boyfriend's parents read all his message son his phone and found out. They made me take a test to just make sure. :) Everything is back to normal now!
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reader, momo4eva77 +, writes (15 March 2010):
I had the same exact problem because just like you I am 14. I had sex and we didnt use protection and I didnt think he cumed inside me but yet i thought I could be pregnant. I also didnt get my period when I was supposed to but I tried to stay calm and I waited a week or so to see if i got any symptoms and I didnt. Then I found out that im probably not pregnant then and Im not. If you can the best thing to do is to get a pregnancy test but if you cant then you have to wait. I couldnt get a test but I used my instinct but the best bet would be to get a pregnancy test. Then if you are pregnant you could get an abortion if you want or somehow slowly tell your parents and decide then. Good Luck!
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reader, wild orchid +, writes (15 March 2010):
 you can get a pregnancy test just make sure its a good one that can be very accurate. i dont know how will your parents react to your this situation. but the next time you are going to have sex use a condom. do not ruin your life. you have so much ahead of you in life. as a matter of fact you have to protect yourself from diseases. i just hope you are not pregnant. and i hope that everything goes ok
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reader, pandabird  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Abortion is Not murder, you can't tell someone to keep a baby if they can't take care of it.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Dear, maybe is just that you are nervous. You can buy a pregnancy test at any drugstore, read the instructions.
If you are not, learn more about sex. You can ask your doctor, your sisters, your mom. Next time, please use condom it may save your live, there are thing far worst than a nice baby.
The next day pill is recommended for the 72 hours after the sexual relation. Passed three days, you might be murdering your own son or daughter.
If you are, please do not kill him/her. Your parents and his, may get angry, sad, disappointed.. but it will pass and love will prevail. The lord works on mysterious ways, please don`t kill the gift of life he has given you. You will have to choose between raise your kid or give him/her for adoption. remember that the kid's father also has rights and duties with the baby.
A little mistake can be corrected with love and a lot of hard work, a murder can never be corrected.
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reader, pandabird +, writes (15 March 2010):
Before you panic completely, you need to take a pregnancy test. The stress of this situation may be what is causing your late period, if I am stressed it's sometimes 2 weeks late.
If you are, you are... You sound like you have a big family, and I imagine they are very supportive and only want what is best for you, so you'll have to bite the bullet and tell them.
They will help you decide what is best for you.
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reader, anysecondnow  +, writes (15 March 2010):
I don't know, but let's hope that everything works out ok this time. But get it through your head - you have to use birth control. Condoms are the best protection against STDs (and a good policy generally), the pill is the best protection against pregnancy. Don't mess up your life! If you make the same mistake again or if you just use condoms and something happens (like the condom breaks or falls off), then take the morning after pill. My girlfriend and I just had to do that this weekend. Not fun, but necessary.I don't know how your parents are, but probably the last thing they want is for you to get pregnant. If I were them, I would far prefer you getting on the pill... even if I didn't like the idea of you having sex. 14 is a bit young... but sooner or later they are going to have to deal with their little baby being sexually active.
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