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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Alright everyone so I have a little problem. I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months...it's a casual thing...go on dates..we kiss when we part..we were friends to begin and then it turned into this. I have very strong feelings for her and thats saying alot considering I got out of a 5 year relationship a little over a year ago. So a couple weeks ago she came over and stayed at my house...she is really busy with school,work,and internship so this was rare that we had a night together. The next day I asked her if she saw US going anywhere she told me she had been thinking about it a lot and that it was something she was for sure intrested in. Later that day she said she didn't know how it would work with how busy she is and stuff but she was happy with what we were now. So I was fine with that cause I didn't want to really jump right into something big. So since then things have been kina weird between us...I tell her I miss her cause i haven't seen her in like 3 weeks she says the same back. My birthday was last monday she wished me a happy birthday on the internet before and on my bday morning I said it would be really nice if I could see you today ( I told her two weeks before I wanted to see her on my bday)she said she would try cause she had tests and work and then she never replied to me or even called me that night to see how my birthday was. After that she hasn't said a word to me it's been almost a week and I have no idea what's going on not one word from her. She has always been kind of flaky, but i don't feel I should have to contact her when she didn't call me on a really important day. I know that sounds selfish but what should I do?? I don't want to give in and seem like I need to talk to her but I feel like shes playing with my head. She is a very open and honest person so if she wasn't intrested in me I feel like she would have told me. I understand things may come up but if you really want to see someone you can always make it happen, and at the worst it takes two seconds to send a text to see how someone is doing. I just do want to end up getting screwed over but I really think her and I could have something but at the same time I can't let someone walk all over me when it's convenient for them....what do I do any advice???
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