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36-40,
*enisonstew
writes:O.k. i'm in a rural town. I want a boyfriend, and i just don't know people around here, and most of them i don't wanna know. I'm kind of out, and people are more accepting than i thought, But still misunderstood because there's not too many gay people out here. i've had encounters with a few guys, but i want someone I can get to know. It's hard enough that I see so many couples going out, and i seem to be excluded.I used to live in much bigger city, and i living with my parents, and they moved to a rural area. no jobs around no money to go out and do things. online dating seems too complicated. I'm tired of being lonely all the time. it took me 22years to accept that i want a boyfriend, and i've never been able to get a girl. it seems like it's totally impossible due to circumstances beyond my control and it's depressing me. i heven't had too much of a social life so i'm kind of afraid of my own shadow.i wouldn't want to trade being gay for a million dollars because i love it, but at the same time it sucks that i didn't get to date in school, also growing up i never got to get that exciting encouragement a girl gets from her famale friends, and i'm just seeing my life go in circles not going anywhere.although i do have some loving support it's just not that easy. mom is cool, stepdad doesn't seem to have a problem, but he's not too encouraging, tells me to look up what the bible has to say about it. i just don't know where to get help with this. i have some friends but they're more or less aquaintences. maybe i'm just not entitled to be happy. i'm not entitled to get close to somebody. really need to get the ball rollin because i'm tired of being alone all the time staring at the four walls in my room. i've done that every day after school when i was in school. how can i fix this situation?
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reader, BehindThese HazelEyes +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Have you tried gay clubs? or maybe you have gay friends you could hang out with that could help set you up with someone? or even straight friends that know people....me and my bf were set up by mutual friends and now were expecting a baby in May....good luck!
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