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Why is he so unsure about what he wants in life yet IS so sure he doesn't want to be with me?

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Question - (31 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My ex-boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me about two months ago. The reason we broke up was because he lost his feelings for me. Recently we had a conversation where he said we can't be together if our goals/ wants are different. So i asked him what his goals/wants are. He said he is still searching for them but he knows that he does not want for us to be together.

I know I need to let go of this relationship. But I just can't figure out why is it that he doesn't know about his life, but is so sure about our relationship? Is he going through a stage in his life? We're both in our early twenties

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A female reader, cemoi United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2009):

Maybe he feels like you're jsut pushing for a long term commitment and despite not knowing anything else in his life, he knows he doesn't want to commit yet. let go of him. if he thought he'd made a mistake you'd know already.

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