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female
age
30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:i like this guy in one class that i have and i'm confused because he is sending me mixed messages. first it started off as him staring at me and glancing my way then since he sits in front of me he moved in the back seat..i thought he was going to talk to me but he barely did this other girl in that class moved to sit by him and he always talks to her.i get annoyed so i ask stupid questions like wat chapter is this on or do u have a pencil but he always said i dont know and no. never really a conversation maker. he kinda talks to me but it seems like everytime he wants gum or a piece of paper he asks me and not her so i guess thats a positive thing.today after lunch i passed by him and he purposly bumped into me while talking to his friends i say ohhh really looudly and walked away stupidly..everytime i pass by him and his friends his friends always stare at me does that mean that he has talked about me in a good way or a bad way?i dont want to confront that i like him i just want to flirt so how do i? and also is they're really a chance he might like me? and is he talking to her for my attention? please i would appricate all the answers that u have taken the time to write
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reader, davo  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Flirting is one of life’s pleasures. It can be great fun; cost’s nothing and can be good for your health. It can also boost your self-esteem and confidence.Flirting is also a way of showing someone that you are interested in them and would like to know them better. Many relationships started with a flirtatious encounter; this is a very enjoyable stage for most people; allowing yourself to be slightly risqué; with the knowledge that greater intimacy might follow.The art of flirtation needs to be practiced wisely; if misused; it can arouse bad feelings and create problems.The golden rules of Flirting:DO keep it light; humor is a vital tool for successful flirting. Playfulness is more engaging than trying to be a Casanova or a femme fatal.DON’T flirt with someone you know has a serious crush on you that you don’t return.DO maintain eye contact for just slightly longer then normal. This registers your appreciation of the other person without being too intrusive.DON’T flirt to score points against your partner of to provoke him or her.DO be aware of your body language. Angle your body towards the person and mirror his or her posture without being to o obvious.DON’T flirt with someone if you know his or her partner is prone to jealousy.DO draw attention to yourself by adjusting your hair or clothing slightly; toy with an earring;smooth your hair back or away from your face.DON’T overdo it; you are out to have FUN, not to embarrass yourself in public.Always keep SMILING.Using these rules you should find he may start to be interested and maybe even flirt back.
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