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male
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41-50,
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writes:Hi, I have a huge issue that I created for myself. FOur years ago I meet the woman of my dreams but at the time I didnt realize it. I didnt realize it until recently. She did everything in her power to please me and because I was so bitter of how my previous relationship took place I took it out on her. We have had some awesome times together and some very sad ones. I consistently lied to her to cover up my past because under a court order I was suppose to pay and take care of my ex for three years. I didnt want to tell her that. I'm in the Navy and spent the last year in CUBA. While her I've been faithful to her, I email and call her very often but I left her for one year. I took leave twice to spend as much time as I can with her but she is still lonely. She wanted to marry me years ago but I told her I wasnt ready. I'm so in love with her and her daughter is a sweetheart and I love her as my own. I consistently dawged this woman out. I want to apologize to her and love her for enternity. I need this woman she is generally one of gods best works!! I want this woman to be my wife and the mother f my children! How do I repair what I broken? How do I tell this woman how much she means to me?
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reader, MinnieM  +, writes (1 November 2009):
Make it up to her, a few dozen huge romantic gestures of a kind she will like e.g. No flowers if she has hay fever e.t.c. would be a good start, then be there for her, love her, do whatever it takes until she trusts you and wants you in her life again, no matter how long this takes, good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 The girls said it all, except this: if she won't take you, DON'T repeat these mistakes with the new woman. No harm done in being nice.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (31 October 2009):
As long as your very sure that you mean all this (I'm saying this so that you don't end up taking it back) you just tell her what you told us. This is an easy one, women love when men share their feelings. Just tell her how you feel, that you screwed up, and that you'll never do it again. Simple.
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