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writes:I've never told anyone about this but I need some advice. I like to keep things exciting in the bedroom and my boyfriend of 5 months wants to indulge me as I indulge him.We are just beginning anal sex as its his biggest fetish and I like to make his fantasy come true. We are safe and gentle etc but thats not the issue. The issue is my fetish. I'm really embarrassed and I dont even understand why I like it but I'm really into taboo relationships as in student and teacher but the main one is incestuous relationships with brothers and sisters. I dont have a brother if I did I dont think I'd be into it... but as I said I know its wrong but it really turns me on. I read erotic fiction about taboo relationships. What I would love my boyfriend to do is role play/ pretend to be my brother in some sort of sex scenario but I'm terrified of asking him or even telling him. Though I would love to act this out at the same time.. It took him a lot of guts to tell me his and ask if I'd be willing to indulge him and hes dying to do some sort of fantasy for me and I think he would with mine but I dont want him to be creeped out. So should I tell him or keep it to myself? Hes open minded but I'm still not sure..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice, glad to know others out there like me! It is a good point he has a much younger sister.. I think shes about 6 but perhaps since he has a sister it wouldnt be an appropriate scenario to act out. I'll def start off with the teacher school girl first as I know hes into that and see how it goes from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): I am into taboo relationships as well, but actually went too far, and got myself involved with a college tutor which didn't go down too well, and I also went out with my step brother for about a year.
I understand completely, but asking him is a big thing, does he have a sister? If so I'd strongly advise against it. Why don't you just go for a student/teacher role play or "daddy's friends"?
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reader, cemoi  +, writes (31 October 2009):
if you're not sure, then maybe tone it down. like make him pretend to be a cousin. thats really racy stuff. the other approach you could take is to ask him to read one of these stories with you. if he sees how turned on you are, and he responds to it, you could tell him that you want to act it out that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): If you're not sure yet just wait a little. In time you two will grow closer and the opportunity to tell him will rise again. Remember that everyone has a fetish (or at least most) and many times it is just a fantasy. It's not something you ever acted on in real life (like with your own teacher), because it's the idea that turns you on, and not the actuality of it. I have to admit I am into the forbidden relationships too. I already have a brother though, so I find it impossible and repulsive to think of brother/sister, but I enjoy stepbrother/sister and even some mother/son fantasies. I guess it is about the idea and concept, and not something that would turn me on if I was in that situation in real life. As long as your boyfriend is mature and understands the line between real life and fantasy, I dont see why you should tell him and role play it out. You could always start with a roleplay of a more innocent nature, like the student teacher one. As far as I heard many guys are into that too.
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