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male
age
30-35,
*nLove23
writes:I think I'm in love with this girl... problem is, she has a boyfriend. We dated about two months ago, but we broke up... until' she got together with him, we just remained good friends. I told her, tonight, that I was planning on asking her to get back together with me, before he had asked her. I also asked, if they break up, would she try it again with me... she said she isn't sure, because she is with him now. Before they got together, she was acting like she liked me again. And she still kind of does. I just want to make her realize that I love her, and that I'd be much better for her. I don't want to do anything to break them up, just something to make her like me again. Nothing underhanded.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 November 2009):
 Sorry it took so long to get your question answered! Things got very busy here, and everyone must have been out trick-or-treating, or at least answering the door for them!
So you are encountering that age-old problem, liking someone who is involved with somebody else. I'm afraid all you can do is wait. You obviously are an honorable guy, as you don't want to do anything underhanded. I think that's good. Just continue being the good guy, don't make drama for her, be a good friend, get on with your life, have fun with other friends. If things don't work out for them, then maybe she will consider dating you again, but there are no guarantees.
That's just the way life goes, even for people who are much much older than you are. These things happen even then. The best thing you can do is live life with integrity, treat people with courtesy and dignity and eventually, things will work out for the best.
Good luck!
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