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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hmm ok like over a year ago i had a relapse with my ex bf, he came over to my house nobody was home... we didnt have sex he just fingered me a little.. and we made out... my uncle came home he didnt catch us in the act but i knew he was disappointed by me... he told my mom and my family had some type of intervention for me cause i only did that becuz i was lonely and depressed.. me and the guy dont talk any more, havent since i cut him out my life cause he basically told a mutual friend we had sex but we didnt so i found out and cut him out my life... i dont know if that has caused me trust issues but i havent dated since.. im completely over him! so i know thats not why i havent moved on...I told one person i trust and this was my hs guidance counselor even tho i graduated from hs, we've remained in good contact and i trust her, she said i did the right thing by cutting him off... my question is how does one regain confidence self respect after that ? and realize that hopefully not all men are like that??
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Get dressed up, looking nice and sharp and pretty, and go out on the town. Meet some new people - nothing serious, just go out and have a good time. Once you get back in the swing of dating and start meeting some men who are about something, you'll see there's more out there than your ex-bf.
Good luck.
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