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Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?

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Question - (31 October 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009):

Well I don't know what type of Christian you are but I am a Catholic. I'm 15 and I went through the same thoughts myself. I couldn't ask my priest or anything because I thought that would be a bit akward, lol. So I look through the Catechism Of The Catholic Church (sad, I know). This contains ALL the rules that Christians have to live by in the modern world. It says that people should not masturbate whatever their age or situation. I don't know about the protestant/quaker/etc. views but in Catholicism it is believed that the pleasure obtained through sex is a gift given from God to married couples for pro-creation and to strengthen their bond of love, therefore this is why you should not masturbate.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

There are several ways you can, the easiest is probably using your hand rather than an object of some kind. Just touch yourself and get used to what you like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

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how can i masterbate?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntNone of your concerns are valid, and some previous responses, notably by "rhythmandblues2," are excellent. It is ok, and preferable for your own good and future, to do a bit of masturbation and avoid a much more risky sexual relationship with some young dude.

As a Christian, it is perfectly ok to masturbate whenever you need to relieve and overcome your natural desires. Please save yourself for someone who truly loves you, and meanwhile, masturbation is totally acceptable. Be good.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (1 November 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntThe only way to lose your virginity is to have sexual relations. In other words, it requires a penis.

You can't get pregnant from masturbation, and you can't contract HIV or an STD either.

I could be wrong but I don't recall Jesus mentioning it in the Bible. It's natural to have these urges. You sound quite normal to me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):

No, it's not bad at all. Just because you're a christain (as am I, by the way) doesn't mean that you won't have those urges same sa everyone else. Masturbating is a good way to enjoy yourself and feel good, and relieve those feelings without having to seek those things in another person (boyfriend, random guy, etc.) and go against what you believe.

You can only lose your virginity if you have sexual intercourse with someone, and breaking of your hymen does not mean anything regarding virginity. So, just do it and enjoy getting to know your body more. Someday it will help you and whoever you end up with enjoy things together that you know you want and like. There's no shame in masturbating, christian or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):

It is just fine for a Christian girl to take care of herself in this way, it will help you remain a virgin until you find the love of your life, as most Christians strive for this and most miserably fail because love is never guaranteed....but still it is a very good thing to do to wait.

No you cannot lose your virginity that way. Virginity is never having had sexual intercourse. Even if your hymen were to break, and many girl's do because of all kinds of reasons, that does not make you no longer a virgin....you just happen to be lucky enough not to have to go through some pain on your first time.

Take care dear.

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